The Man who walks with the Healer - By von Moksha Devi Sunshine
When a man chooses a woman who follows a calling... the only possibility is that bond can stand by joining, and especially by giving her space for her path.
Then it may be that he has to put back with his neediness, but he finds healing through the common path there and usually not in the shong.
When a man seeks a woman who heals the collective wounds of woman... namely through her work, he says yes to her: Yes to a greater task.
She goes beyond building a house, so it goes beyond having children and raising them. It's not about classic role distribution any more.
Because this man makes it his job to have the woman's back, catch her when she can't transform the pain of the world any more.
It means he has to open himself up to another form of sexuality... because sexual healing is one of the most profound points when a woman takes on the role of healer.
This too is about slowness, gentleness, healing - about implementing your own drive differently, lovingly researching... and being there for the whole thing.
Because when a man chooses a woman whose goal is freedom, this can only happen together, then... when the man has moved beyond the narcissistic aspect and recognizes the woman's path as his path to freedom.
When a man chooses a woman who is big, it can't be that he still stays in energies that want to keep small and suppress.
When he follows this mission with her... he has a task that serves the good of all men and yet often takes place in the background... and he creates space for safety in this background.
Be sure that he won't raid the woman out of old injuries, and she would have to submit.
When a man chooses a woman because he is so fascinated by her radiance and wisdom and cleverness... it must also be clear to him that he should not be part of the kind that himself is still so in a deficit that he want to take away the glow from her... for fear of having to share it otherwise.
When a man chooses a woman to follow her calling, he must not be afraid of the words respect, humility and devotion...
but this path of divinity at the side of a healer grateful and walk with full heart.
Because such a woman... for the sake of other women... chooses the lonely path... if she had to choose. And yet she's aware of the power when there's a man... beating her drums.
By von Moksha Devi Sunshine